T&O: How someone changed so fast overtime

Promise is a promise, I am back with another T&O post yay! Previously, I have posted a poll for readers to vote, the result was already mentioned earlier. Majority wants me to touch on the topic on... "how someone changed so fast overtime". It might not be an easy discussion because this topic has no direct and absolute answers. Anyway, like I said before, it is just a personal feeling towards something or someone.

Have you ever felt like someone you very much knew before literally became a "total" stranger overtime? Well, I do seldom see it happening on some friends, even celebrities. I am going to elaborate on experiences and thoughts first before giving my explanations.

Somebody changing overtime can be something as simple as a loud person turning super quiet, or someone so obedient becoming a 'badass' as days gone by. Fits the shoe of a schoolmate/friend of yours? Well, then bingo! I have one answer for you: you do not know the person's character and intention fully. The person might be hiding something from everyone else that his/her true colors are later being shown.

In some cases, someone talkative becoming seriously quiet might be a matter of fact that some incident had taken place outside which nobody in school knows about his/her outside affairs. Any various reasons could help support the sudden change in someone's attitude. Some of this reasons would be - him/her losing an important person (eg. love one) and maybe.. guilt over a certain issue. What does guilt got to do with it? Well, some people might desperately want to change for the better, they might do some soul-searching last night and come to a realization that "oh..maybe I have been talking too much all this while, causing me to lose my concentration in class...I can't let that affect my studies...I need to change my learning attitude!". Once someone knows his/her own mistakes, which sane person will not want to try changing for the better? For some, it is pretty easy, but for some, it will be harder. Regardless of which, once the person set his/her mind on becoming someone greater, he/she will eventually change. Of course, this is just a good example of people changing faster overtime. To recap here, a background and experience of a person can change the current attitude of his/hers.

On the other hand, someone so obedient becoming a person with an attitude might be a more special case. It is partly due to his home problems/influences and peer-pressure. When parents tend to neglect a child too much, he/she will feel unloved and thought of being "close" friends with people elsewhere, whether it is in school or from outside, he/she thinks that they are the ones who "cares" more than the parents and hence, getting influenced by their attitudes later. We cannot possibly blame the child too... it just happens sometimes, we have to understand I guess. Shower them with love, they will feel it gradually, I believe. Patient sir/madam! Its like a cause and effect thing.

Lastly, I cannot finish off this post without saying an obvious thing about.. celebrities! From what I know, interviews and all, celebrities do not always necessarily lead a what most people think... luxurious and perfect life. They have their struggles too. Back then, during the olden days, (or even in the present), many celebs attempted suicide/self-harm either from drinking too much, or taking drugs. Why? it because of the heavy workloads they receive too often, stress and negative remarks. The more famous you are, the more hatred you get too. Those are basically the disadvantages there. \

On the other hand, most people are currently mentioning about Miley, how she changed so much from last year till now, they want the old her back. Well, from my point of view, the old her is not her true self! She admitted it on an interview too, its just how the industry works to control her. There is a quote saying: be true to yourself, right? Some people might be still living inside the past , and not moving forward.... I used to think she changed a lot to become worse, but that's how she is...we cannot deny the fact that she is brave to take the risks of being judged by many.  At least, she showed her inner-self.

Change, that word might be a scary thing...but that is just another condition in life. Live with it.