Inspiration strikes, so here I am blogging about what has been on my mind lately. I've been thinking of how it is actually like being a student/teen these days; this generation, nature and technology. How we teenagers are commonly like. And the emotions and outlooks we frequently have. Of course, not all shoes fit so don't come at me saying things like "but that's not me". Chill buddy, this post is intended for general purpose only. Parts and parcel of being in the 13-18s. Empathy. ;)
1) The moment when we realized we have bad-hair, or breakout days. We wake up one morning, go to the loo, then see ourselves in the mirror. Suddenly, 'BOOM!" That 'funny hairdo'... and face that has blemishes. Instant mood level down, we say. Don't we ever feel like staying home instead of going out? Bless the self consciousness within us.
2) Comparisons. Yes, comparisons. We are often judged, or make judgement based on outer appearances constantly by pals, teachers, adults etc etc. Either in the head or verbally. First impressions do count, truthfully. Not everyone will give a damn on it, but aha! This is partly true yeah? Sad truth: Sometimes we take things too literally. As a result, get pretty insecure with ourselves --- which leads me to number 3.
3) At some point of time, we actually DO care about our behaviors, expressions, way we react to things and even movements. We want to hear what others have to say about us, or what their impressions are. We all want to hear good opinions/ praises. Maybe gain the applause and approval (well..). Not the opposite, definitely. We get obsess with portraying ourselves in a better way as much as we could.
4) In need of acceptance, and attention. Honestly, a part of us wants to be seen at least with a friend, especially in school, not allowing people to view the lonely side of us sometimes (not that it is bad, of course). We need that certain friend for emotional support. Or just by simply having his/her existence beside, we feel more relaxed, calm. Sometimes we yearn for advice, and reassurance from them. That particular feeling like "oh.... my friend, who is roughly the same age as me, understands me at least...".
5) Songs can be our best friends, whether at home or in school. Ever heard of a quote that said:
It is very relatable because our moods tend to go up and down, up and down.
6) Edgy, dark days with streak of rebellion. Some of us seldom get too overwhelmed with deep feelings. We might take life to a more extreme side. Foster thoughts like "I can hurt people"... "Life is unfair"..."People are naturally ---" yadda yadda. We get playful and experimental too. Getting a punishment once isn't too bad for us. Playful smirks. Style wise, we go for something edgier, or wear duller colors.
Side note: It happens, even to some "good" people around us. Still, we need that balance yo.
7) Slowly opening up to the real world. Like how it really works and all. We are no longer young kids anymore. Therefore, we start trying to look a little forward to becoming actual young adults. At least behaving like one.
8) Confuse ourselves. Lose ourselves along the way. Get drawn away by how others are. Tend to forget our values and beliefs, mess up and breakdown. As a result, have to redirect our routes, soul search and sort things out personally.
For this one particular thing, lemme tell you: WE ARE SIMILAR, hence, it is totally okay to feel those ways mentioned above. After all, we make mistakes and find difficulty in instant change. It takes time... but one crucial thing needed: acceptance and love for ourselves. Be gentle with ourselves, like how we comfort our good friends when they need us. (That's what I learned and willing to take in as a advice)
9) When we know we are growing and gaining more exposure and knowledge to the world, others are probably at the same level as us. Remember this... me, you, whoever is reading this. Kekekekeke! Have faith in others.
10) Earning some recognition through social networks. SPOT ON! Especially during this generation, where technology is more advanced. Some of us like getting noticed through name and face. That moment when we upload pictures on Instagram, and people we like/admire "favorite-d" our posts. Yay... Hahahahaha what! Or when we feel happy, and simply want to upload items that represent our contentment. Same goes for days when we feel down, and want to seek some consolation.
11) Behind every smiles/ laughter/ friendliness, hides a little awkwardness. When someone said something to us and we do not know what to add on with/ nothing much to say, we give that 'LOL' related words, add on with 'IKRs", "WHUT" or simply smile like "idiots", okay... cancel the word idiot if y'all dislike it.
Actions wise, putting heads down for a short while, fingers touching our own faces and some other tendencies. (I fell in to the 'other tendencies' part)
12) As much as we have happy days, we do occasionally breakdown, get emotional when facing issues and talking to people.
Understandable. This are our "changing period" years anyways, transitioning to adults slowly. Stress get to us. Lets fight this through! And become more sensible humans, shall we?
13) What we see in others, might unknowingly be a reflection of ourselves. Slightly scary truth. But yeah...
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Teenage years, amazing yet terrifying. They will eventually leave an impact on us when we move on (assuming). Be it good or bad memories, we all will have something to learn nonetheless.
Everyone is living through this together so don't feel left out, lonely. ;D
If any one of y'all out there has something else to add on, feel free to mention it on the comment section below! Willing to hear your thoughts as well!
2) Comparisons. Yes, comparisons. We are often judged, or make judgement based on outer appearances constantly by pals, teachers, adults etc etc. Either in the head or verbally. First impressions do count, truthfully. Not everyone will give a damn on it, but aha! This is partly true yeah? Sad truth: Sometimes we take things too literally. As a result, get pretty insecure with ourselves --- which leads me to number 3.
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| Credits: here |
3) At some point of time, we actually DO care about our behaviors, expressions, way we react to things and even movements. We want to hear what others have to say about us, or what their impressions are. We all want to hear good opinions/ praises. Maybe gain the applause and approval (well..). Not the opposite, definitely. We get obsess with portraying ourselves in a better way as much as we could.
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| Credits: here - Can also read the topic on how not to be so self-conscious. |
4) In need of acceptance, and attention. Honestly, a part of us wants to be seen at least with a friend, especially in school, not allowing people to view the lonely side of us sometimes (not that it is bad, of course). We need that certain friend for emotional support. Or just by simply having his/her existence beside, we feel more relaxed, calm. Sometimes we yearn for advice, and reassurance from them. That particular feeling like "oh.... my friend, who is roughly the same age as me, understands me at least...".
5) Songs can be our best friends, whether at home or in school. Ever heard of a quote that said:
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| Credits: here |
6) Edgy, dark days with streak of rebellion. Some of us seldom get too overwhelmed with deep feelings. We might take life to a more extreme side. Foster thoughts like "I can hurt people"... "Life is unfair"..."People are naturally ---" yadda yadda. We get playful and experimental too. Getting a punishment once isn't too bad for us. Playful smirks. Style wise, we go for something edgier, or wear duller colors.
Side note: It happens, even to some "good" people around us. Still, we need that balance yo.
7) Slowly opening up to the real world. Like how it really works and all. We are no longer young kids anymore. Therefore, we start trying to look a little forward to becoming actual young adults. At least behaving like one.
 |
| Credits: here |
8) Confuse ourselves. Lose ourselves along the way. Get drawn away by how others are. Tend to forget our values and beliefs, mess up and breakdown. As a result, have to redirect our routes, soul search and sort things out personally.
For this one particular thing, lemme tell you: WE ARE SIMILAR, hence, it is totally okay to feel those ways mentioned above. After all, we make mistakes and find difficulty in instant change. It takes time... but one crucial thing needed: acceptance and love for ourselves. Be gentle with ourselves, like how we comfort our good friends when they need us. (That's what I learned and willing to take in as a advice)
9) When we know we are growing and gaining more exposure and knowledge to the world, others are probably at the same level as us. Remember this... me, you, whoever is reading this. Kekekekeke! Have faith in others.
10) Earning some recognition through social networks. SPOT ON! Especially during this generation, where technology is more advanced. Some of us like getting noticed through name and face. That moment when we upload pictures on Instagram, and people we like/admire "favorite-d" our posts. Yay... Hahahahaha what! Or when we feel happy, and simply want to upload items that represent our contentment. Same goes for days when we feel down, and want to seek some consolation.
11) Behind every smiles/ laughter/ friendliness, hides a little awkwardness. When someone said something to us and we do not know what to add on with/ nothing much to say, we give that 'LOL' related words, add on with 'IKRs", "WHUT" or simply smile like "idiots", okay... cancel the word idiot if y'all dislike it.
Actions wise, putting heads down for a short while, fingers touching our own faces and some other tendencies. (I fell in to the 'other tendencies' part)
 |
| Credits: here |
12) As much as we have happy days, we do occasionally breakdown, get emotional when facing issues and talking to people.
Understandable. This are our "changing period" years anyways, transitioning to adults slowly. Stress get to us. Lets fight this through! And become more sensible humans, shall we?
13) What we see in others, might unknowingly be a reflection of ourselves. Slightly scary truth. But yeah...
---
Teenage years, amazing yet terrifying. They will eventually leave an impact on us when we move on (assuming). Be it good or bad memories, we all will have something to learn nonetheless.
Everyone is living through this together so don't feel left out, lonely. ;D
If any one of y'all out there has something else to add on, feel free to mention it on the comment section below! Willing to hear your thoughts as well!
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